The information below is an expansion of this weeks article on the 4th Heart Chakra. There was soo much I wanted to share, there wasn't enough room in the limited article space.
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The Heart Chakra is the healer, the unifier, as LOVE
IS THE PRIMAL GLUE OF THE UNIVERSE. LOVE INTEGRATES and LACK OF LOVE DISINTEGRATES. There
is nothing more devastating than lack of love.
Heart Chakra |
IT IS LOVE THAT OPENS THE ROAD TO DEEPER AND WIDER CONSCIOUSNESS, AND A DEEPER CONNECTION WITH OURSELVES.
Our Fourth chakra represents our basic right to love and be loved. Unfortunately this chakra is easily damaged, diminished or wounded, and that wounds both spirit and soul, affects both the mind and body, and impacts the very core of the self. Love, balance, self-reflection and acceptance, relationship intimacy, grief and compassion are the basic isues of this chakra. This chakra is located in the chest (cardiac plexus), and is of the air element. It is oriented towards self-acceptance as well as acceptance of others.
The abuses and traumas that damage this chakra are rejection, abandonment and loss; constant criticism, unacknowledged grief, divorce, death of a loved one, a loveless environment, and sexual or physical abuse. Abuses to the lower chakras will also manifest as wounds and scars to the heart, as the energy and strength of one chakra builds on the next. When we are unable to face, resolve and heal the traumas, our personalities manifest as antisocial, withdrawn, critical in judgment and intolerant of self or others; depression, fear of intimacy or relationships. Fear and grief usually block our attempts, and can eventually block the heart chakra itself. If we develop survival mechanisms that are excessive in its energy, we will manifest a personality that is codependent, exhibiting poor boundaries, demanding, clinging or jealous. We oftimes think our friends and family are just mean, negative or bad people. No, they/we simply need to heal their/our hearts.
All
forms of child abuse are travesties of love - though they are not a
complete absence of love, but simply an absence of "healthy
love." Most often it happens when this most needed element of
life is twisted and torn, withheld and used as a means of control.
When this happens in childhood, we grow up not knowing what healthy
love looks like and thus have a hard time creating it in our lives.
Without
a healthy relationship with the self, reflective consciousness is
impossible. So we end up seeking our groundedness through another -
they become our reality, which usually drives them away. But when we
"give them everything" and we lose them, we bankrupt
ourselves because we don't have a center to which others can be
attracted and stay - because 'no one is home.' There is no one
inside us to love because we have given ourselves away.
Being
loved by another increases our experience of Self, as we are
reflected in the eyes, words, and behavior of our lover. Suddenly we
catch a glimpse of our own divinity, our specialness, and begin a new
way to truly care for ourselves and feel a sense of pride and
purpose. WeThe most common block in the heart chakra is the absence
of self-love. How can we have intimacy with others, reach out to
others or maintain balance between ourselves and others if we have no
balance within, are drowning in our own shame and self-criticism
and/or are distanced from our own self?
Part of our healing process would need to include breathing exercises (pranayama), working with our arms - reaching out and taking in. (As the 3rd Chakra involves mastering the vibrational principles of 'holding on and letting to,') Of course there is much more, but I won't presume to be a Psychotherapist, but you could/should seek deeper assistance . . . as we ARE able to heal all. We just need to take the first steps. AFFIRMATIONS: I am worthy of love; I am loving to myself and others; there is an infinite supply of love; I live in balance with others.
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Part of our healing process would need to include breathing exercises (pranayama), working with our arms - reaching out and taking in. (As the 3rd Chakra involves mastering the vibrational principles of 'holding on and letting to,') Of course there is much more, but I won't presume to be a Psychotherapist, but you could/should seek deeper assistance . . . as we ARE able to heal all. We just need to take the first steps. AFFIRMATIONS: I am worthy of love; I am loving to myself and others; there is an infinite supply of love; I live in balance with others.
Mandala of the Heart Chakra |
Suggested reading: Eastern Body, Western Mind by Anodea Judith
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